Category: Goddess Manifestations
Ok, one way to make up for lost blogging days….post your “drafts.”
Yeah, I think I’ve posted four or five blogs left on or is it “in” “draft” status. Of course, I believe that most of the were combined in another blog, but as I said in one, “oh well.”
I’m just pleased “TO BE.”.
Now off to read some statistical analyses. Type to you next year. 👽👽👽👽😜
a pui tardi
I thought that I would be able to C&P my G+ post, but alas…..NO
Some earth shattering news…. Today, I received my first “blue screen error.
This photo reminds me of the Star Trek epi “Let that be your Last Battlefield.” www.startrek.com/database_article/let-that-be-your-last-battlefield
I’ve lost my train of thought. That’s the “problem” with drafts. I draft it “because something more ‘important’ came up, and then I lose the momentum.
Laters!
…gripe about something. But now I can’t remember.
…share a thought or two about some things that have been knocking about in my head. But, I’ve realised that those thoughts need a little more knocking before I can share.
…finish a vlog that “needs” to be finished, but I just don’t feel like it.
…move, delete, compress even more files. How in the blue hades does one fill a t.b. so quickly? What’s after a terabyte?
Oh well…a pui tardi!
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Humm,
I try to post that whenever and wherever I can.
Bear with me, I’ve not worked from the desktop in a while. The feel of an actual keyboard is …odd.
Because I love Domo-kun.
OK, here we go…
Closure. Can we talk?
Yesterday, I had a conversation with a friend (we’ll call Timmy) who expressed that he wished that his friend (Billy) would talk about, a dark place in his life.
So, you know me. I asked,”What purpose would that serve him? Why would Billy wish to think about that period? Why would he want to re-live that? He has learned from it. He has become a much better person. He is actually happy; and, he has apparently moved on. Hell, he is thriving now as opposed to then. So why would he need to discuss that time?”
Now, here is the key, I think.
“Because I want him to discuss it so that I can have some closure.”
I am really startled. “Just why do you need closure on Billy’s problem? I am really curious to hear your answer to this.
Because, (reasons aren’t really relevant) but to sum it up. Timmy feels that because he went through those things with Billy, and that things were said about Timmy that “just weren’t true,” yada yada ya – ex-chetra (yeah, I know, watch Community)…..
“OK, do you not think Timmy has considered the source? Has he not apologised repeatedly? Has he not given you the ‘credit’ you’re due?”
I see where this is going so I raise a finger and say…
What you want, is to talk about YOU.
What YOU want is to talk about how YOU feel/felt.
What YOU want is to be the centre of attention.
If YOU need to discuss it, why don’t YOU talk to a therapist?
I thought you did those things out of concern, love and affection. Not to have something to bring up everytime you have an opportunity just so that you can say what you’ve done, and how you helped….
Subject changed….
So “closure” is it really for the “victim/survivor” or their “friends?”
a pui tardi
does anyone else have trouble recalling past blogs? Did I do this one here, on perhaps on YouTube?
Query: realistically, how long can a person blame their parents/caregivers for the “crap” of their lives?
I ask this because, lately I’ve been hearing “I’m this way because my mom didn’t do this.”
“I’m this way because my dad was never home.”
I am a bit bothered by this. I’m asking myself, “What about … PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY?”
It seems to me that’s what is lacking in the world today. We choose to place blame at the feet of others as opposed to “man-ing up” and saying that we are because of decisions I made. My life “sucks” not because my mom didn’t buy me a pair of trainers or
I had a flash!
No, I am not sharing right now…..
You’ll see or perhaps you won’t…
Is this cryptic enough?
… a teaser, I believe it is called.









